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If You Feel Trapped In a Relationship or Marriage
That's No Longer Working and Not Sure What To Do About It...
Here's How To Remove The Doubt, Fear, Pain
and Uncertainty of The Most Important Decision
You'll Ever Make In Your Life...
"Should You Stay or Should You Go?"
Dear Friend,
We're Relationship Coaches Susie and Otto
Collins and we'd like to ask you some VERY important questions about your relationship.
Because no one else will see or know your answers, please answer as
openly and honestly as you can. Your relationship and personal happiness
depends on what you do to move yourself forward --starting right now.
Here are the questions...
Are you frustrated by a relationship or marriage that's no longer
working for you AND you're not sure what (if anything) to do
about it?
Are you beginning to wonder whether this relationship is "worth it" any
more?
Are you trying to figure out whether your relationship is just going
through a rough patch or if it's really over?
Have you or your partner
emotionally or physically abandoned the relationship and you want to
know whether you should give it one more try?
Do you feel like there is still love between the two of you but because
of everything that's happened, you're wondering whether that is enough
to keep you together?
If you said "yes" to any part of the questions above then
welcome to the most important question you will ever ask yourself...
"Should YOU
Stay or Should YOU Go?"
The Importance Of Making This Decision...
If
you've read this web page so far, then we
don't have to tell you how important this decision can be.
It's been said that your choice of a mate or partner is the single
biggest factor that determines your personal happiness in life and
to that we cannot disagree.
If you make the right decision about your relationship-- happiness, love and
peace of mind are
possible.
If you make the wrong decision and it could be a decision you'll
regret for a long time, maybe forever.
We Have This Confession To Make About Relationships...
As we mentioned earlier, we are relationship coaches
and authors Susie and Otto Collins and in addition to spending our time
helping other people create outstanding relationships in our coaching
practice, we have a truly fantastic relationship with each other and
enjoy lots of love, passion and a close connection in many ways.
We don't say this to impress you, but to show you what is
possible.
This is important because the truth is, just like a lot of
people, we weren't always in a
great relationship.
Simply put, we both have had to live with and make the important
decision of whether to stay or go in our previous
marriages.
We've both been where you are. We know what it's like to be in a
relationship with someone you love or care about and still feel
cold and empty inside.
We know what it feels like to wonder "is this all there is?"
This is a terrible place to be in a relationship because life is just too
short to be this unhappy.
When it comes to relationships, what we have discovered is
that some can be saved and others just can't
(no matter how much we try).
Even though, we both made the decision to leave our previous
marriages and we are very happy in our
relationship now, we'll be the first to tell you that leaving
isn't always the right decision for everyone. Sometimes
it's best to stay and work things out. Only you can decide this.
Making the decision about whether to stay
or go can be confusing, stressful and difficult.
If you're in a relationship that isn't
working and you're not sure what to do, we'd like you to know
that there is hope for a great relationship, no matter how
desperate your situation appears right now.
One of the biggest things you can do to help
yourself right now is NOT to beat yourself up about what's going on.
Please tell yourself that you're doing the best you can and that
everything is going to be fine.
There is something, however, we must tell you that almost no one ever figures out before it costs them a lot of time, energy, pain and
frustration ...
Why Making "No Decision" About Your
Relationship
is Almost Always
The Wrong Decision...
If you're like a lot of people (and
couples), you might think that if you put off the decision of whether you
want to stay in or leave your relationship, the problems you are
having will somehow magically heal themselves or disappear.
They won't.
If you don't invest some quality time now
in taking an honest and truthful look at the state of your
relationship, you could stay stuck in this place of indecision
for a very long time.
It's amazing to us how many people are stuck in
"limbo" about this decision and are content to stay stuck in
this place of indecision about their relationship.
So many people waste so much precious time
when they could be experiencing an incredible relationship
filled with love, passion and joy, either in their current
relationship or one that is more of what they want.
But it's not your fault...
We do this because very often, as we're growing up, we're taught to hold
back, not tell people how we really feel or what's important to
us. We're taught to NOT "rock the boat' and to not cause
trouble.
We're also no usually taught anything about our
emotions and how to deal with them that we're aware of.
In school, we're taught a lot of things that we may or may not ever use
such as math, sciences and of course a foreign language but no class
about relationships or communication is offered anywhere that we know of.
Not one.
Then, later in life, we wonder why our relationships are falling apart
when we've done our best and can't seem to find any easy answers.
To get started in making this decision, we encourage you to take an honest look at
your situation and feel how much pain you've been feeling about
this relationship.
If having a great relationship is
important to you, you need to decide that you're not willing
to live without the love, passion, intimacy, tenderness,
connection and yes, even sex any longer.
You have to take the first step to create the kind of
relationship and love you want in your life.
We're not suggesting that you should leave your current
relationship or marriage and head out looking for the new love
of your life. That's your decision and one that should only be
made after some careful insight and thinking.
What we are telling you is that life is too short to go through
it without having the love you want and the love that's possible
for all of us.
If you are in a relationship that is causing you to wonder
whether you can make it work or if it would be better to leave,
it's important that you
take some time now to gain clarity so that you'll be able to ask yourself openly and honestly
whether you'll be able to heal the challenges.
The question "Should you stay or should you go?" is
certainly a big decision.
It could be the biggest decision of your life. It's the one
decision you absolutely, positively want to be certain about.
This is a decision you don't want to regret later. You also
don't want to stay stuck for very long either...
This is why you might want to consider picking up a copy of our book and
audio program-- "Should You Stay or Should You Go?"

Sound Advice For Anyone
Trying To Decide
Whether To Stay In or Leave a Relationship...
After working with hundreds of
individuals and couples in our relationship coaching practice to help
them make the best decision possible about whether to Stay or Go...
We've seen almost everything and we can honestly say that a couple of
the biggest mistakes you could ever make when trying to make this
decision are these:
1) Trying to make this decision alone
or
2) Putting too much stock or value in advice from well-meaning
friends, co-workers, associates, family members or anyone you like and
trust as you make this incredibly important and difficult decision.
If you are trying to decide whether
to stay or go and you're trying to do it alone-- you should know that
it's critically important to have the genuine support of someone who's
emotionally healthy and has the skills to serve as a guide and advisor as you make one of the biggest decisions you'll ever make.
What we've found is this-- no matter how much you want to make this
decision in private, in secret or without anyone knowing about it-- too
much is at stake to make this decision without someone in your corner
who's not only been down this road themselves but has also helped other
people like you navigate the sometimes murky waters that can come with a
decision like this.
If you're getting help and advice
from your friends, family or other important people in your life about
whether to stay or go--this
is both good news and bad news and here's why...
This good news is...
You have people who love or care about you enough to try to offer you
the best love, guidance, support and wisdom they have to offer.
The thing to watch out for when you're getting advice from your friends,
family or other people who care about you is...
No matter how well-meaning these advice-givers in your life are and no
matter how much they love you, when they are giving you advice, they are ALL coming
from their own biases, prejudices, neuroses, rules for living, ways of
looking at the world and history.
What this means is-- no matter how
well informed they are, how much they love or care about you or want to
support you they are not you and don't have the same set of rules and
values as you.
They also don't want the same things
in a relationship as you.
Because of this, there is NO WAY
anyone else can truly know what is the best thing for you.
They can think they know or have a good idea what you should do. But, in
the end there is no way they can get behind your eyeballs and know your
hopes, dreams, fears, desires, wants and expectations about what you really
want for your relationship and your life.
Otto remembers vividly an example of this when he was in the process of
leaving his first marriage. One night a lifelong friend called him up on
the phone and essentially ended the friendship because according to him
"leaving a relationship wasn't something you should ever do."
Otto's friend went on to say that
leaving "simply wasn't right."
Of course Otto disagreed with his
friend's way of looking at the world and they were lifelong friends up
until that point. This man was even the "best man" for Otto at his
marriage ceremony to his first wife.
In making this suggestion to you, please know that we're not
recommending that you shouldn't talk to friends, family or trusted people in your life
about what's going on in your relationship or life.
Quite the contrary-- we think it's
great if you want to get their advice.
Just know that it's their advice from their point of view and in order
to make the best decision possible, you have to be clear about
your own values and rules for how you want your life to be and have
these distinctions and differences in mind as you are sorting out all
the suggestions from
otherwise loving, kind and well-meaning people.
How To
Eliminate Your Uncertainty
Years ago, when we were both faced with
this decision in our previous relationships, we each agonized for what seemed
like forever. We needed solid, unbiased help and didn't know where to
get it.
Fast forward several years later to today, and as a part of our
relationship coaching practice, we've created an amazing new resource for
helping you or anyone to make the best decision possible about whether
to stay in or leave your relationship or marriage.
It's our "Should You Stay or
Should You Go?" book and audio program that we just
mentioned to you...
"Should You Stay or
Should You Go?" is the program we
both wish we had when we were faced with
this decision many years ago, prior to getting together in our
relationship.

Why have hundreds of people found
"Should You Stay or Should You Go?" to be an incredibly valuable resource
to help them make this critical relationship decision?
Here are just a few examples of what people
say...
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"Should You
Stay or Should You Go" Helped Me
Discover The Truth...
"I am so happy I purchased your book. I can not tell you how much I have learned from this.
Not only about my relationship but my life. It has been a real gem to have this.
"Discovering the truth about what I am really feeling inside about this relationship has been so exciting!
No more denying, keeping it inside, nor feeling guilty about what I feel.
"This has helped me in so many ways I can not explain it
all. I really thank you. To share your wisdom and insight in such a
way, is truly a gift. Thank you again."
Suzy
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"Helped
Me Be Honest..."
"Reading
'Should I Stay or Should I Go' did exactly what its subtitle
suggests---it raised compelling questions for me to consider not
only about my current relationship but for my life. It helped me
to be completely honest with the most important person in my life
about my need to look into our future to see if we had the same
goals.
"Reading it made me sit down and write out my future goals
for myself and to discuss the collective goals of my partner and
me. We will now have this to refer to in the future, as we grow
together. I knew approaching my boyfriend with this book would
either make him consider a future with me or run the other way.
"Whatever happened would have revealed the truth about our
relationship. Approaching him with the book stirred up a lot of raw
emotion and difficult discussions, but we are better for it. Thank
you, Susie and Otto, for sharing the gift of your path in finding a
true, loving relationship."
Sharon from West Chester, Pennsylvania
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"Gave Me Tools I Needed At A
Critical Time In My Life..."
"I've
been reading and listening to columns and advice from Susie &
Otto for over 2 years now ...at a time when thinking clearly was
not easy for me to do, because my wife and I were on the verge of
divorce, this book gave me the tools I needed to dig deep down
inside myself and ask myself questions I wouldn't have otherwise
been able to at that time.
"Although my wife and I decided to go
our separate ways... this book is an ongoing relationship tool
that will always help me evaluate myself and what I am offering
and/or getting out of a relationship. Thank you Susie & Otto
for helping me make this difficult decision."
Curt Williams from Calgary, Alberta
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What Is
"Should You Stay or Should You Go?"
and What's In It?
Yes, "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" is
a book and audio program that has turned out to be one of the best
selling programs in the world on how to decide whether to stay in or
leave a relationship...
AND it's so much more than that... It
is also the name of the process we created
and copywrited.
When we wrote this book and created the audio that contains the
information we're telling you about, we wanted to give you and anyone
else who could benefit from our insights the insights
we wish we had when we each faced this decision prior to
getting together in our relationship many years ago.
Quite simply, when we both needed a resource like this one-- nothing like it
existed. That's why we created it. We set out to provide a much needed resource
that will help you (and anyone else who needs it)
gain the clarity you need to make the best decision possible at this
critical time in your life.
The
"Should
You Stay or Should You Go?" book is not just a book you read.
It is an "action book" filled with hundreds of
questions, stories and insights that will help you consciously determine
whether to stay in your present relationship or to move on.
The audio portion of
this program is the recording of a teleseminar we gave called "The 10 Most Important Things To Consider When Deciding
Whether To Stay In or Leave a Relationship."
This audio is NOT us reading the book.
This is totally fresh, new information and insights that are not in the
book or other bonuses.
If you're looking
for some relationship expert or guru to tell you what you should
do, then this book and audio program isn't for you.
"Thought
provoking, stimulating and provocative. This book will give you lots to think about. It will help you dig a little deeper
to help you make a better choice about staying in or leaving a relationship."
Larry James, CelebrateLove.com,
Author
"How to Really
Love the One You're With"
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In
this book we take
you through a powerful process of discovery about yourself, your
partner and your relationship. By going through this process, the decision about what's best for you
actually reveals itself to you.
This process asks you to take a thorough, heartfelt examination of
your relationship to help you clarify your next steps--whether those steps are to formulate ways to make the relationship better or
to devise a plan to leave the relationship with grace.
With the information
you'll hear on the audio from the teleseminar, you'll gain a new
understanding of some of the most important things you need to
consider when deciding whether to stay in or leave a
relationship.
On this audio, we'll give you detailed answers and insights about these 10
things and because of the information we'll share, you'll be
able to make a more conscious, clearer decision that is better
for you.
We'll also give you some ways to think about your relationships
that you may not have considered before.
When You
Order
the "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" Book and Audio
Program,
Here's What You'll Discover With the Information We Share...
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Should you make
this decision alone or is it best to involve your partner?
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Who can (and
should) you turn to for support during this time when you're making
this decision?
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How do you best
decide what you really want in a relationship?
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What is the most
important question you should ask yourself about this decision when
children are involved?
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When is love no
longer enough of a reason for staying in this relationship?
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How can you make
the best decision while still honoring your religious and spiritual
beliefs?
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How do you know
when you're leaving this relationship too soon or staying too long?
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When
can you still have hope for rebuilding the relationship?
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What are the most
important questions to ask yourself to make sure your commitments,
beliefs and decisions are reflective
of who you are right now and who you want to be?
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What are the most important questions to ask yourself to know
whether your partner's or spouse's goals are compatible with yours
and the most important question to ask if they aren't?
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How can you
listen to your heart instead of what other people think or what you
think you "should do"?
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What is the one
thing you have instant access to right now that will tell you how
you are really feeling about this situation?
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What are the most
important questions you or anyone should ask themselves to get
"unstuck" in this decision-making process?
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What can you do
to be able to see the real issues and separate them out from what
you may be thinking are the real issues in your relationship or
marriage?
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How can you know
if both of you are willing to do the things that will make your
relationship or marriage better?
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What is the one
thing that prevents almost everyone from having a truly outstanding
relationship or marriage?
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What is the most
common thing we all do that builds walls between us and our partner
or spouse and keeps us from having the love and connection we really
want with our partner?
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What do the "things
you can't talk about with your partner or spouse" reveal about your relationship?
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What two things
must you no longer do if you want to have a happy and harmonious
relationship?
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What are the most
important questions you must ask yourself about love, sex and
passion?
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What is the ONLY
reason anyone flirts or has an affair when they are in a committed
relationship?
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What must you do
to create a more conscious, connected and loving relationship when
there has been an affair or flirting is going on?
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What are the only
times when you should absolutely leave your relationship with no second
thoughts or doubts?
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What are the best
and most important questions you need to ask yourself about your
financial situation and housing options if you decide to leave?
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What is important
for you to know as you plan what your next steps should be?
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And much more.
When You Order "Should
You Stay or Should You Go?" ...
You have the choice of getting the instantly downloadable version
only...
... which includes the downloadable version of the book, MP3 version of the audios
and downloadable copies of all the bonuses described below,
plus our Love and Relationships newsletter free of charge.
(With this version
NOTHING gets sent to you in the mail. You download everything to
your computer) |
 
(Instantly downloadable book and Audio
program) |
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You can have the printed paperback version
of the book and the actual CD's for the program sent to you by priority mail (With this version, you also get instant
access to the download versions of everything too, as well as
our Love and Relationships newsletter sent by email free of
charge.)
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Plus, order now and we'll
also include the download versions of these
3 incredible bonuses...
Bonus #1
Creating Relationship Magic Ebook
In our e-book, "Creating
Relationship Magic" we've identified 52 of the biggest
challenges and issues we all face in our relationships and through
powerful personal stories and examples, we show you how you can
create magical relationships in your life. We've sold hundreds of
these e-books from our web sites at $19.77 each. The digital
downloadable version is yours as a
bonus for buying "Should You Stay or Should You
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Bonus #2
"6 Keys to Healing
after Leaving a Painful Relationship"
by Susie and Otto Collins
This special report lays out
six powerful ideas to help you move beyond where you are now and give
you a fresh perspective on how to let go of your situation so you can
allow the healing to begin. You'll discover some simple, yet
profound tools to move you through the pain to explore new possibilities
for your relationships and your life.
We are including a copy of the digital version here as an added bonus for buying our book
"Should you stay or should you go?"
Bonus #3
"10 Communication
Mistakes"
by Susie and Otto Collins
We've identified ten communication mistakes that nearly
everyone is making in their relationships. Along with identifying
these common mistakes, we give some proven, practical suggestions and
ideas for eliminating these "mistakes" and instead, we tell you how to
create great communication in any relationship.
Bonus #4
"Love and Relationships
Newsletter"
by Susie and Otto Collins
This weekly newsletter, sent to you by email free of
charge, is filled with practical tips and ideas about how to keep the
spark alive and create the relationship you've always wanted. You can
unsubscribe at any time.
How to
tell if this "Should You Stay or Should You Go?"
program is for you...
If you want
to make the best, most informed, rational, heartfelt, conscious decision
possible in deciding whether to stay in or to leave your present
relationship, then "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" is for you.
If you think you are in any way wanting help, support or
guidance in making this decision or want to know how to move forward
from an unbiased supportive resource that's helped hundreds of people
sort out what's best in their unique situation, then this program is for you.
If you are trying to make this decision as "privately" or "secretly" as
possible but would still like some confidential support, this program is
for you.
If you want to make sure you're not staying in this
relationship or marriage too long or leaving too soon, then this program
is for you because it will also help you get clear on what's best and
right for you and your timing.
If you simply want to make sure you don't overlook or
leave out anything in your decision making process, this program will
help you do that.
If you or your partner has already left the relationship
or marriage and you're trying to make sure it's really over before you
"throw in the towel" and say it's over for good, then this program is
for you.
If you are ready to discover the truth about what you are really feeling
inside about this relationship-- if you're ready to stop denying,
keeping it inside or feeling guilty about your relationship then this
program will be a big help to you.
If you have even an ounce of desire to make sure you are
making the best decision possible about your relationship or marriage,
we sincerely believe this program can change your life.
On the other hand, if you want someone to tell you
what's the "right" thing to do..
or
...if you are unwilling to spend any time whatsoever
going inside yourself to truly find out what is the right decision for
you, then you should probably pass on this info and not bother getting
it.
This program is for people who want to know the truth about whether they
can ever have the love, passion, peace, harmony, connection (or
whatever's important to them) in their current relationship or marriage
-- or if it's best that they move on and find what they want in another
relationship.
How "Should You Stay or Should You Go?"
Is Different From Other Relationship Resources In Helping You Make This
Decision...
As we said earlier, there are not many resources out
there for helping someone like you make the best decision possible about
whether to stay or go...
Basically it boils down to two types of resources that are available to
help you and "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" is different from both
of them in very fundamental ways.
These resources are:
(1) Books you'll be able to read
or
2) Relationship therapy or coaching.
As for the books you might find available on this
subject...
Most of them are good and what you'll find about them if you look
(we know, we've done the research) is that the
books on the subject are just that. Books.
What's different about "Should you Stay or Should you
Go?" compared to ANY book on the subject is that 'Stay or Go?' is
a complete book and audio program that doesn't just offer info about
how to make this decision. Stay or Go is much more than that.
In it, we're offering a complete process that hundreds of people have
used to come to their own best decision. In other words, we're not just
offering a book, we're taking you by the hand and walking you through a
one-of-a-kind process we created that is not only based on what we wished we'd had when
we made this decision earlier in our lives but also on interviews and
surveys with hundreds of people struggling with relationship challenges.
So, how is "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" different than therapy or
coaching?
First, while therapy can be incredibly valuable and we highly recommend
it-- it can also be expensive (especially if your insurance doesn't
cover it.)
Some people simply can't afford the rates that therapists charge and
other people find that they need help now, not when you can get on the
therapist's schedule when they have an opening.
"Should You Stay or Should You Go?" is a bargain compared to the rates therapists charge to work with you.
And with this program, there's no waiting to get help. You can start
getting the help you want and need within minutes after you order the
program.
Even if you're in therapy now or
you've got a therapist or coach you're going to be working with soon--
many therapists and coaches recommend this program as an additional
resource to use while working with them. The program is that valuable.
What We Know About You and Your Situation
If you've read this far on, we think
that you're someone who really is interested in more from your
relationship than you have right now.
We also think that you're someone who's willing to look below the
surface to see what's really going on and whether you can have what
you want in this relationship or determine whether it's time to move on and..
We're also willing to bet that you're the kind of person who is willing
to spend a little time and energy now to discover what your heart says
is the right thing to do once you have all the info you need.
Are we right?
We think so and that's why
the questions, stories and insights we
offer in "Should You Stay or Should You go?" are
going to be so valuable to you.
With this information and questions, it's not our intention to suggest to you
what is right, wrong,
moral, immoral, or to pass judgment in any way about what you should
or should not do in your relationships.
Although we do give our opinions
and insights about some of the issues, these decisions are yours and yours alone.
This
process will help you clarify what's going on in the relationship and
will allow you to discover the answers
that are inside you.
If you want to
order this program but want to make
sure your privacy and confidentiality is protected,
here's how we handle that...
Because of the sensitive nature of this
decision, we realize that you may not want anyone else to know
whether you are trying to decide whether to stay or go.
If this is the case, we want you to know that your privacy is
secure with us. We believe that it's no one else's business that
you're making this decision, unless you want them to know about
it.
Click here to see how
we will protect your privacy if you purchase the "Should You
Stay or Should You Go?" book and audio program.
This program is
affordable for anyone
committed to making the best decision
possible about their relationship or marriage
This "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" package that
includes the book, the audio recording from the teleseminar on
the 10 things to consider when deciding whether to stay or go...
and the 5 terrific bonuses is not available in stores anywhere.
The only place you can get it is
here on our web site.
You have the choice to order either the instantly downloadable
version only, or you can get the instantly downloadable version
along with a printed copy of the book and audio CD's mailed to
you.
No matter which version you order, you can download and be
reading the information and listening to the audios within
minutes.
"Should You Stay or Should
You Go?" book, the
audio and all 5 bonuses are available now at the introductory low price of only $34.95
for the downloadable version or $44.95 plus shipping and
handling for the version sent to
you by priority mail.
Look at it this way--$34.95
(or $44.95 ) is really a small price to pay for a program like
this compared to the satisfaction you'll have knowing that
you've done everything you could possibly do to make sure you
made the best decision possible about your relationship and that you can look back on
your decision with absolutely no regrets.

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with your current partner or spouse or are you going to wan t
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What we've discovered is, the longer you hesitate or stay in limbo
about this decision-- the longer it will take until you can start
enjoying the kind of love and relationship we know is possible for you.
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Susie and Otto
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"Should You
Stay or Should You Go"
Helped Me
Discover The Truth...
"I am so happy I purchased your book. I can not tell you how much I have learned from this.
Not only about my relationship but my life. It has been a real gem to have this.
"Discovering the truth about what I am really feeling inside about this relationship has been so exciting!
No more denying, keeping it inside, nor feeling guilty about what I feel.
"This has helped me in so many ways I can not explain it
all. I really thank you. To share your wisdom and insight in such a
way, is truly a gift. Thank you again."
Suzy
(Address withheld by request)
"Should You
Stay or Should You Go"
Helped Me
Make My Decision To Stay and Try and Work things Out...
It did actually help me make my decision to stay in my
relationship and try to work things out.
As I was working through the worksheets it occurred to
me that the root of the problem was that we did not
communicate expectations well and reacted in ways that we
had always reacted in other relationships and just assumed
the other person understood why we felt the way we did.
We have been working through the questions together one
question at time. Interestingly enough, he was completely
surprised that I was considering leaving the relationship as
he did not perceive a problem.
These questions you offered in the program opened up a lot
of dialog.
Thanks, Valerie
"Should You
Stay or Should You Go"
Helped Me
Evaluate A So-So Relationship, Then I Found My Soulmate...
Congratulations on your great website and all the
positive advice
you offer people.
Your "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" program helped me
evaluate a so-so, long-distance relationship, which I
ended... and then I found my
soulmate.
Today I am in the relationship and home and town and job
that
I always wanted. Keep up your work, never underestimate the
need for it.
Thank you!
Janice Williams
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"Helped
Me Be Honest..."
"Reading
'Should I Stay or Should I Go' did exactly what its subtitle
suggests---it raised compelling questions for me to consider not
only about my current relationship but for my life. It helped me
to be completely honest with the most important person in my life
about my need to look into our future to see if we had the same
goals.
"Reading it made me sit down and write out my future goals
for myself and to discuss the collective goals of my partner and
me. We will now have this to refer to in the future, as we grow
together. I knew approaching my boyfriend with this book would
either make him consider a future with me or run the other way.
"Whatever happened would have revealed the truth about our
relationship. Approaching him with the book stirred up a lot of raw
emotion and difficult discussions, but we are better for it. Thank
you, Susie and Otto, for sharing the gift of your path in finding a
true, loving relationship."
Sharon from West Chester, Pennsylvania
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"Gave Me Tools I Needed At A
Critical Time In My Life..."
"I've
been reading and listening to columns and advice from Susie &
Otto for over 2 years now ...at a time when thinking clearly was
not easy for me to do, because my wife and I were on the verge of
divorce, this book gave me the tools I needed to dig deep down
inside myself and ask myself questions I wouldn't have otherwise
been able to at that time.
"Although my wife and I decided to go
our separate ways... this book is an ongoing relationship tool
that will always help me evaluate myself and what I am offering
and/or getting out of a relationship. Thank you Susie & Otto
for helping me make this difficult decision."
Curt Williams from Calgary, Alberta
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Success
Story
Listen to Jeanie from Lee Center, Minnesota talk about the book...
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Rave Review
"Thought
provoking, stimulating and provocative. This book will give you lots to think about. It will help you dig a little deeper
to help you make a better choice about staying in or leaving a relationship."
Larry James,
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