How Can You Know If Your Relationship or Marriage Is Really Over and it's Time to Move On?

With This Program, Making This Decision  Has Never Been Easier and Here's Why...

Dear Friend, 

   We're relationship coaches and authors Susie and Otto Collins and If you're unhappy in your relationship or marriage and you're considering leaving, then we don't have to tell you how important this decision can be.

   It's been said that your choice of a mate or partner is the single biggest factor that determines your personal happiness in your life and to that we cannot disagree.

   Make the right decision about your relationship-- happiness and love are possible.

   Make the wrong decision and it could be a decision you'll regret for a long time, maybe forever.

         But what about you and your situation?

   If we guess correctly, you're in either one of two situations. 

   One-- you're unhappy in your current relationship or marriage and are trying to decide whether to stay or go. 

   Or two, you've already made the decision to leave and want to make sure you're making the right decision.  

   No matter which of these scenarios best describes your situation, you're about to discover some of the most important questions you need to ask yourself in order to make the clearest, most empowered decision possible about whether to Stay or Go.  

   By reading the information on this web page, you'll also discover a powerful new resource that will give you fresh new insights into your current relationship. 

   No matter what your relationship is like now--we want you to know that a passionate, alive and connected relationship is possible for you or anyone else that wants one.

   As we mentioned earlier, we are relationship coaches and authors Susie and Otto Collins and in addition to spending our time helping other people create outstanding relationships in our coaching practice, we have a truly fantastic relationship with each other and enjoy lots of love, passion and a close connection in many ways.  

   We don't say this to impress you, but to show you what is possible. 

   This is important because the truth is, we weren't always in a great relationship. 

   Simply put, we both have had to live with and make the important decision of whether we should stay or go in our previous marriages. 
 
   We've both been where you are. We know what it's like to be in a relationship with someone you love or care about and still feel cold and empty inside.  

   We know what it feels like to wonder "is this all there is?"
 
   This is a terrible place to be in relationship. Life is just too short to be this unhappy.

   When it comes to our relationships, what we have discovered is that some relationships can be saved and others can't be saved (no matter how much we try).

   Even though, we both made the decision to leave our previous marriages and we are very happy in our relationship now, we'll be the first to tell you that leaving isn't always the right decision for everyone.  Sometimes it's best to stay and work things out.

   Making the decision about whether to stay or go can be confusing, stressful and difficult.

    If you're in a relationship that isn't working and you're not sure what to do, we'd like you to know that there is hope for a great relationship, no matter how desperate your situation appears right now.

       Why Making "No Decision" About  Your              Relationship is Almost Always
The Wrong Decision...

   A lot of people ( and couples) think that if they put off the decision of whether they want to stay in or leave their relationships, the problems they are having will magically somehow heal themselves or disappear. 

   They won't. 

   If you don't invest some quality time now in taking a true, honest and truthful look at the state of your relationship, you could stay stuck in this place of indecision for a very long time. 

   It's amazing to us how many people are content to stay stuck in this place of indecision about their relationship.

   So many people waste so much precious time when they could be experiencing an incredible relationship filled with love, passion and joy, either in their current relationship or one that is more of what they want.

   We encourage you to take an honest look at your situation and feel how much pain you've been feeling about this relationship. 

   If having a great relationship is important to you, you need to decide that you're not willing to live without the love, passion, intimacy, tenderness, connection and yes, even sex any longer.
 
   You have to take the first step to create the kind of relationship and love you want in your life. 

   We're not suggesting that you should leave your current relationship or marriage and head out looking for the new love of your life. That's your decision and one that should only be made after some careful insight and thinking.  

   What we are telling you is that life is too short to go through it without having the love you want and the love that's possible for all of us. 

   If you are in a relationship that is causing you to wonder whether you should stay in it or leave-- It's important that you take some time now to gain the clarity about it so that you'll be able to ask yourself openly and honestly whether you'll be able to heal the challenges. 

   The question about "should you stay or should you go" is certainly a big decision.

   It could be the biggest decision of your life. It's the one decision you absolutely, positively want to be certain about. This is a decision you don't want to regret later. You also don't want to stay stuck for very long either...

How To Eliminate Your Uncertainty

   Years ago, when we were both faced with this decision in our previous relationships, we agonized forever. We needed help and didn't know where to get it.

   Fast forward several years later to today, and as a part of our relationship coaching practice, we've created an amazing new resource for helping you or anyone to make the best decision possible about whether to stay in or leave your relationship or marriage.

   It's our "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" Book and audio program that we just mentioned to you...

   "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" is the book we both wish we had when we were faced with this decision a few years ago.

   The audio portion of this program is the recording of a teleseminar we did recently called "The 10 Most Important Things To Consider When Deciding Whether To Stay In or Leave a Relationship."

   If you're looking for some relationship expert or guru to tell you what you should do, then this book and audio program isn't for you. 

   "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" is an "action book"  filled with hundreds of questions, stories and insights that will help you consciously determine whether to stay in your present relationship or to move on.  

   In this book we take you through a powerful process of discovery about yourself, your partner and your relationship.  By going through this process, the decision about what's best for you actually reveals itself to you.

   This process asks you to take a thorough, heartfelt examination of your relationship to help you to clarify your next steps—whether those are to formulate ways to make the relationship better or to devise a plan to leave the relationship with grace. 

   With the information you'll hear on the audio from the teleseminar, you'll gain a new understanding of some of the most important things you need to consider when deciding whether to stay in or leave a relationship. 

   On this audio, we'll give you detailed answers and insights about these 10 things and because of the information we'll share, you'll be able to make a much better, more conscious and clearer decision.

   We'll also give you some ways to think about your relationships that you may not have considered before.

Why have thousands of people found "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" to be an incredibly valuable resource to help them make this critical Relationship decision?  

Here are just a few examples of what other people say about "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" ...

"Helped Me Be Honest..."  "Reading 'Should I Stay or Should I Go' did exactly what its subtitle suggests —it raised compelling questions for me to consider not only about my current relationship but for my life. It helped me to be completely honest with the most important person in my life about my need to look into our future to see if we had the same goals.  "Reading it made me sit down and write out my future goals for myself and to discuss the collective goals of my partner and me. We will now have this to refer to in the future, as we grow together. I knew approaching my boyfriend with this book would either make him consider a future with me or run the other way.  "Whatever happened would have revealed the truth about our relationship. Approaching him with the book stirred up a lot of raw emotion and difficult discussions, but we are better for it. Thank you, Susie and Otto, for sharing the gift of your path in finding a true, loving relationship.”                 Sharon from West Chester, Pennsylvania	Click The Arrow To Listen To Sharon
"Gave Me Tools I Needed At A           Critical Time In My Life..." "I've been reading and listening to columns and advice from Susie & Otto for over 2 years now ...at a time when thinking clearly was not easy for me to do, because my wife and I were on the verge of divorce, this book gave me the tools I needed to dig deep down inside myself and ask myself questions I wouldn't have otherwise been able to at that time.  "Although my wife and I decided to go our separate ways... this book is an ongoing relationship tool that will always help me evaluate myself and what I am offering and/or getting out of a relationship. Thank you Susie & Otto for helping me make this difficult decision."                        Curt Williams from Calgary, Alberta	Click The Arrow  To Listen To Curt
Success Story  Listen to Jeanie from Lee Center, Minnesota talk about the book...	Click The Arrow To Listen To Jeanie

 

Sometimes you need help in making a decision as important as this...

When You Order The "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" book and audio program, here's what you'll discover with the information we share...

• Should you make this decision alone or is it best to involve your partner?
  

• Who can (and should) you turn to for support during this time when you're making this decision?
  

• How do you best decide what you really want in a relationship?
  

• What is the most important question you should ask yourself about his decision when children are involved?
  

• When is love no longer enough of a reason for staying in this relationship?
  

• How can you make the best decision while still honoring your religious and spiritual beliefs?
  

• How do you know when you're leaving this relationship too soon or staying too long?
  

• When can you still have hope for rebuilding the relationship?
  

• What are the most important questions to ask yourself to make sure your commitments, beliefs and decisions are reflected of who you are right now and who you want to be?
  

• What are the most important questions to ask yourself to know whether your partner's or spouse's goals are compatible with yours and the most important question to ask if they aren't?
  

• How can you listen to your heart instead of what other people think or what you think you "should do"?
  

• What are the right questions to ask yourself to know how to help you separate out what you are thinking and feeling from what others are telling you that you are (or should be) thinking or feeling?
  

• What is the one thing you have instant access to right now that will tell you how you are really feeling about this situation?
  

• What are the most important questions you or anyone should ask themselves to get "unstuck" in this decision-making process?
  

• What can you do to be able to see the real issues and separate them out from what you may be thinking are the real issues in your relationship or marriage?
  

• How can you know if both of you are willing to do the things that will make your relationship or marriage better?
  

• What is the one thing that prevents almost everyone from having a truly outstanding relationship or marriage?
  

• What is the most common thing we all do that builds walls between us and our partner or spouse and keeps us from having the love and connection we really want with our partner?
  

• What the "things you can't talk about with your partner or spouse" reveal about your challenges in your relationship?
  

• What two things must you no longer do if you want to have a happy and harmonious relationship?
  

• How can you know which unhealthy patterns from the past could be showing up and creating problems in this relationship?
  

• What are the most important questions you must ask yourself about love, sex and passion?
  

• What is the ONLY reason anyone flirts or has an affair when they are in a committed relationship?
  

• What must you do to create a more conscious, connected and loving relationship when there has been an affair or flirting is going on?
  

• What are the only times when you should absolutely leave your relationship with no second thoughts or doubts?
  

• What are the best and most important questions you need to ask yourself about your financial situation and housing options if you decide to leave?
  

• What is important for you to know as you plan what your next steps should be?
  

• And much more.

   The questions, stories and insights in this book are not intended as counseling or advice about your decision to stay or leave. Rather they provide a powerful process of self-discovery to help you come to your own best decision.  This process will help you clarify what’s going on in the relationship and will allow you to discover the answers that are inside you.

   It is not our intention to suggest to you what is right, wrong, moral, immoral, or to pass judgment in any way about what you should or should not do in your relationships. 

   Although we do give our opinions and insights about some of the issues, these decisions are yours and yours alone.  

   Our intention is to present questions, examples and ideas that will help you to gain the insight that you need to make the best, most conscious decision possible when deciding whether to stay in or to leave your present relationship.  

   Moving consciously through life can be a joyful, enriching experience and even the process of deciding whether to stay in or leave a relationship can be peaceful and filled with love if it’s done in a conscious manner.   We're certain that this book and audio program will help you in this process, if that is your intention.

This program is not available in stores. Ordering Info is given below...

 

If you want to order this program but want to make
sure your privacy and confidentiality is protected,
here's how we handle that...

   Because of the sensitive nature of this decision, you may not want anyone else to know whether you are trying to decide whether to stay or go.   If this is the case, we want you to know that your privacy is secure with us. We believe that it's no one else's business that you're making this decision, unless you want them to know about it.

   Click here to see how we will protect your privacy if you purchase the "Should You Stay or Should You Go?"  book and audio program.

   When you order "Should You Stay or Should You Go?"  you'll have the choice of an instantly downloadable version, which includes an e-book and MP3 version of the audios, or you can have the a printed paperback version of the book and the actual CD's for the program sent to you by priority mail.

Bonus #1 Creating Relationship Magic Ebook In our e-book, "Creating Relationship Magic" we've identified 52 of the biggest challenges and issues we all face in our relationships and through powerful personal stories and examples, we show you how you can create magical relationships in your life. We've sold hundreds of these e-books from our web sites at $19.77 each. It's yours as a bonus for buying "Should You Stay or Should You Go?"

Bonus #2

"6 Keys to Healing after Leaving a Painful Relationship"
by Susie and Otto Collins

This special report will give you six powerful ideas to help you move beyond where you are now and give you a fresh perspective on how to let go of your situation so you can allow the healing to begin.  You'll discover some simple, yet profound tools to move you through the pain to explore new possibilities for your relationships and your life.

This special report is valued at $7.95. We are including it here as an added bonus for buying our book "Should you stay or should you go?"

Bonus #3

"Love Lessons"
by Susie and Otto Collins

"Love Lessons" is a 56 page book that will give you dozens of powerful insights, tips, ideas and strategies for creating an outstanding relationship. This book is a distillation of many of the things that helped us to create the blissful relationship that we now enjoy.  This book was originally part of our "Relationship Toolkit."  Our Relationship Toolkit is now no longer available at any price. The value of this book is $19.95 if it was available.  

Bonus #4

"7 Keys to Creating A Great Relationship"
by Susie and Otto Collins

This is a 20-page special report that we created after we were asked to do a presentation on the 7 things we considered to be most important in creating an outstanding relationship. Of course there are more than 7 things that go into the make up of a great relationship. But, if you're going to limit yourself to only 7 keys, these would be a wonderful foundation to form any relationship on. The value of this special report is $7.

Bonus # 5

"10 Communication Mistakes"
by Susie and Otto Collins

We've identified ten communication mistakes that nearly everyone is making in their relationships.  Along with identifying these common mistakes, we give some proven, practical suggestions and ideas for eliminating these "mistakes" and creating great communication in any relationship that is a challenge for you.  This report is a $7 value.

This Program is Affordable For Anyone Committed To Making The Best Decision
 Possible  About Their Relationship or Marriage

   This "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" package  that includes the book, the audio recording from the teleseminar on the 10 things to consider when deciding whether to stay or go...  and the 5 terrific bonuses is not available in stores anywhere. 

   The only place you can get it is here on our web site.

   You have the choice to order either the instantly downloadable version only, or you can get the instantly downloadable version along with a printed copy of the book and audio CD's mailed to you.

   No matter which version you order, you can download and be reading the information and listening to the audios within minutes. 

    "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" book, the audio and all 5 bonuses are available now at the introductory low price of only $29.95 for the downloadable version or $39.95 plus shipping and handling for the version sent to you by priority mail.

   Look at it this way--$29.95  (or $39.95 ) is really a small price to pay for a program like this compared to the satisfaction you'll have knowing that you've done everything you could possibly do to make sure you made the best decision possible about your relationship and that you can look back on your decision with absolutely no regrets.

 

   Our goal is to help you make the clearest,  most conscious decision possible about whether to stay in or leave this relationship. Plus, we also want to give you some powerful ideas, strategies and suggestions  for taking your next logical step toward getting the love you want in your life.   

 

Our Famous 365 Day Guarantee Your satisfaction and confidentiality is assured through our no risk, you-can't-lose, 100%, no-questions-asked money-back guarantee.  If for any reason, you aren't completely satisfied with your purchase, just let us know within 365 days and we'll refund 100% of your purchase price.  If the relationship that you are considering leaving is one that is (or was) important to you, you don't want to look back in a month, two months, 2 years or 20 years from now and kick yourself because you made the wrong choice about your relationship. That would be hard to live with.

Order the "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" book and audio package now to make sure you make the right decision. 

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Many Blessings,  Susie and Otto Collins

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