If You Feel Trapped In a Relationship or Marriage That's No Longer Working and Not Sure What To Do About It...

Here's How To Remove The Doubt, Fear, Pain and Uncertainty of The Most Important Decision You'll Ever Make In Your Life...

"Should You Stay or Should You Go?"

Dear Friend,

We're Relationship Coaches Susie and Otto Collins and we'd like to ask you some VERY important questions about your relationship. 

Because no one else will see or know your answers, please answer as openly and honestly as you can. Your relationship and personal happiness depends on what you do to move yourself forward --starting right now.

Here are the questions...

Are you frustrated by a relationship or marriage that's no longer working for you AND you're not sure what (if anything) to do about it?

Are you beginning to wonder whether this relationship is "worth it" any more?

Are you trying to figure out whether your relationship is just going through a rough patch or if it's really over?

Have you or your partner emotionally or physically abandoned the relationship and you want to know whether you should give it one more try?

Do you feel like there is still love between the two of you but because of everything that's happened, you're wondering whether that is enough to keep you together?

If you said "yes" to any part of the questions above then welcome to the most important question you will ever ask yourself...

"Should YOU Stay or Should YOU Go?"


The Importance Of Making This Decision...

If you've read this web page so far, then we don't have to tell you how important this decision can be.

It's been said that your choice of a mate or partner is the single biggest factor that determines your personal happiness in life and to that we cannot disagree.

If you make the right decision about your relationship-- happiness, love and peace of mind are possible.

If you make the wrong decision and it could be a decision you'll regret for a long time, maybe forever.


We Have This Confession To Make About Relationships...

As we mentioned earlier, we are relationship coaches and authors Susie and Otto Collins and in addition to spending our time helping other people create outstanding relationships in our coaching practice, we have a truly fantastic relationship with each other and enjoy lots of love, passion and a close connection in many ways.  

We don't say this to impress you, but to show you what is possible. 

This is important because the truth is, just like a lot of people, we weren't always in a great relationship. 

Simply put, we both have had to live with and make the important decision of whether to stay or go in our previous marriages. 
 
We've both been where you are. We know what it's like to be in a relationship with someone you love or care about and still feel cold and empty inside.  

We know what it feels like to wonder "is this all there is?"

This is a terrible place to be in a relationship because life is just too short to be this unhappy.

When it comes to relationships, what we have discovered is that some can be saved and others just can't (no matter how much we try).

Even though, we both made the decision to leave our previous marriages and we are very happy in our relationship now, we'll be the first to tell you that leaving isn't always the right decision for everyone.  Sometimes it's best to stay and work things out. Only you can decide this.

Making the decision about whether to stay or go can be confusing, stressful and difficult.

If you're in a relationship that isn't working and you're not sure what to do, we'd like you to know that there is hope for a great relationship, no matter how desperate your situation appears right now.

One of the biggest things you can do to help yourself right now is NOT to beat yourself up about what's going on.

Please tell yourself that you're doing the best you can and that everything is going to be fine.

There is something, however, we must tell you that almost no one ever figures out before it costs them a lot of time, energy, pain and frustration ...
 

Why Making "No Decision" About  Your Relationship
is Almost Always The Wrong Decision...

If you're like a lot of people (and couples), you might think that if you put off the decision of whether you want to stay in or leave your relationship, the problems you are having will somehow magically heal themselves or disappear. 

They won't. 

If you don't invest some quality time now in taking an honest and truthful look at the state of your relationship, you could stay stuck in this place of indecision for a very long time. 

It's amazing to us how many people are stuck in "limbo" about this decision and are content to stay stuck in this place of indecision about their relationship.

So many people waste so much precious time when they could be experiencing an incredible relationship filled with love, passion and joy, either in their current relationship or one that is more of what they want.

But it's not your fault...

We do this because very often, as we're growing up, we're taught to hold back, not tell people how we really feel or what's important to us. We're taught to NOT "rock the boat' and to not cause trouble.

We're also no usually taught anything about our emotions and how to deal with them that we're aware of.

In school, we're taught a lot of things that we may or may not ever use such as math, sciences and of course a foreign language but no class about relationships or communication is offered anywhere that we know of.

Not one. 

Then, later in life, we wonder why our relationships are falling apart when we've done our best and can't seem to find any easy answers.

To get started in making this decision, we encourage you to take an honest look at your situation and feel how much pain you've been feeling about this relationship. 

If having a great relationship is important to you, you need to decide that you're not willing to live without the love, passion, intimacy, tenderness, connection and yes, even sex any longer.
 
You have to take the first step to create the kind of relationship and love you want in your life. 

We're not suggesting that you should leave your current relationship or marriage and head out looking for the new love of your life. That's your decision and one that should only be made after some careful insight and thinking.  

What we are telling you is that life is too short to go through it without having the love you want and the love that's possible for all of us. 

If you are in a relationship that is causing you to wonder whether you can make it work or if it would be better to leave, it's important that you take some time now to gain clarity so that you'll be able to ask yourself openly and honestly whether you'll be able to heal the challenges. 

The question "Should you stay or should you go?" is certainly a big decision.

It could be the biggest decision of your life. It's the one decision you absolutely, positively want to be certain about. This is a decision you don't want to regret later. You also don't want to stay stuck for very long either...

This is why you might want to consider picking up a copy of our book and audio program-- "Should You Stay or Should You Go?"


Sound Advice For Anyone Trying To Decide
Whether To Stay In or Leave a Relationship...


After working with hundreds of individuals and couples in our relationship coaching practice to help them make the best decision possible about whether to Stay or Go...

We've seen almost everything and we can honestly say that a couple of the biggest mistakes you could ever make when trying to make this decision are these:

1) Trying to make this decision alone 

or

2) Putting too much stock or value in advice from well-meaning friends, co-workers, associates, family members or anyone you like and trust as you make this incredibly important and difficult decision.

If you are trying to decide whether to stay or go and you're trying to do it alone-- you should know that it's critically important to have the genuine support of someone who's emotionally healthy and has the skills to serve as a guide and advisor as you make one of the biggest decisions you'll ever make.

What we've found is this-- no matter how much you want to make this decision in private, in secret or without anyone knowing about it-- too much is at stake to make this decision without someone in your corner who's not only been down this road themselves but has also helped other people like you navigate the sometimes murky waters that can come with a decision like this.
 

If you're getting help and advice from your friends, family or other important people in your life about whether to stay or go--this is both good news and bad news and here's why...
 

This good news is...

You have people who love or care about you enough to try to offer you the best love, guidance, support and wisdom they have to offer.

The thing to watch out for when you're getting advice from your friends, family or other people who care about you is...

No matter how well-meaning these advice-givers in your life are and no matter how much they love you, when they are giving you advice, they are ALL coming from their own biases, prejudices, neuroses, rules for living, ways of looking at the world and history.

What this means is-- no matter how well informed they are, how much they love or care about you or want to support you they are not you and don't have the same set of rules and values as you.

They also don't want the same things in a relationship as you.

Because of this, there is NO WAY anyone else can truly know what is the best thing for you.

They can think they know or have a good idea what you should do. But, in the end there is no way they can get behind your eyeballs and know your hopes, dreams, fears, desires, wants and expectations about what you really want for your relationship and your life.

Otto remembers vividly an example of this when he was in the process of leaving his first marriage. One night a lifelong friend called him up on the phone and essentially ended the friendship because according to him "leaving a relationship wasn't something you should ever do."

Otto's friend went on to say that leaving "simply wasn't right."

Of course Otto disagreed with his friend's way of looking at the world and they were lifelong friends up until that point. This man was even the "best man" for Otto at his marriage ceremony to his first wife. 

In making this suggestion to you, please know that we're not recommending that you shouldn't talk to friends, family or trusted people in your life about what's going on in your relationship or life.

Quite the contrary-- we think it's great if you want to get their advice.

Just know that it's their advice from their point of view and in order to make the best decision possible, you have to be clear about your own values and rules for how you want your life to be and have these distinctions and differences in mind as you are sorting out all the suggestions from otherwise loving, kind and well-meaning people.
 

How To Eliminate Your Uncertainty

Years ago, when we were both faced with this decision in our previous relationships, we each agonized for what seemed like forever. We needed solid, unbiased help and didn't know where to get it.

Fast forward several years later to today, and as a part of our relationship coaching practice, we've created an amazing new resource for helping you or anyone to make the best decision possible about whether to stay in or leave your relationship or marriage.

It's our "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" book and audio program that we just mentioned to you...  

"Should You Stay or Should You Go?" is the program we both wish we had when we were faced with this decision many years ago, prior to getting together in our relationship.   

 

 

Why have hundreds of people found "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" to be an incredibly valuable resource to help them make this critical relationship decision?  

Here are just a few examples of what people say...

"Should You Stay or Should You Go" Helped Me Discover The Truth...

"I am so happy I purchased your book. I can not tell you how much I have learned from this. Not only about my relationship but my life. It has been a real gem to have this.

"Discovering the truth about what I am really feeling inside about this relationship has been so exciting!  No more denying, keeping it inside, nor feeling guilty about what I feel.

"This has helped me in so many ways I can not explain it all. I really thank you. To share your wisdom and insight in such a way, is truly a gift. Thank you again."

Suzy    
(Address withheld by request) 

 


             "Helped Me Be Honest..." 

"Reading 'Should I Stay or Should I Go' did exactly what its subtitle suggests---it raised compelling questions for me to consider not only about my current relationship but for my life. It helped me to be completely honest with the most important person in my life about my need to look into our future to see if we had the same goals. 

"Reading it made me sit down and write out my future goals for myself and to discuss the collective goals of my partner and me. We will now have this to refer to in the future, as we grow together. I knew approaching my boyfriend with this book would either make him consider a future with me or run the other way. 

"Whatever happened would have revealed the truth about our relationship. Approaching him with the book stirred up a lot of raw emotion and difficult discussions, but we are better for it. Thank you, Susie and Otto, for sharing the gift of your path in finding a true, loving relationship."

Sharon from West Chester, Pennsylvania

 



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    "Gave Me Tools I Needed At A
          Critical Time In My Life..."


"
I've been reading and listening to columns and advice from Susie & Otto for over 2 years now ...at a time when thinking clearly was not easy for me to do, because my wife and I were on the verge of divorce, this book gave me the tools I needed to dig deep down inside myself and ask myself questions I wouldn't have otherwise been able to at that time. 

"Although my wife and I decided to go our separate ways... this book is an ongoing relationship tool that will always help me evaluate myself and what I am offering and/or getting out of a relationship. Thank you Susie & Otto for helping me make this difficult decision."
 
Curt Williams from Calgary, Alberta 




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                    Success Story 

Listen to Jeanie from Lee Center, Minnesota talk about the book... 

 



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What Is "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" and What's In It?
 

Yes, "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" is a book and audio program that has turned out to be one of the best selling programs in the world on how to decide whether to stay in or leave a relationship...

AND it's so much more than that...
It is also the name of the process we created and copywrited.

When we wrote this book and created the audio that contains the information we're telling you about, we wanted to give you and anyone else who could benefit from our insights the insights we wish we had when we each faced this decision prior to getting together in our relationship many years ago.

Quite simply, when we both needed a resource like this one-- nothing like it existed. That's why we created it. We set out to provide a much needed resource that will help you (and anyone else who needs it) gain the clarity you need to make the best decision possible at this critical time in your life.

The "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" book is not just a book you read.

It is an "action book" 
filled with hundreds of questions, stories and insights that will help you consciously determine whether to stay in your present relationship or to move on.  

The audio portion of this program is the recording of a teleseminar we gave called "The 10 Most Important Things To Consider When Deciding Whether To Stay In or Leave a Relationship."

This audio is NOT us reading the book. This is totally fresh, new information and insights that are not in the book or other bonuses.

If you're looking for some relationship expert or guru to tell you what you should do, then this book and audio program isn't for you. 


"Thought provoking, stimulating and provocative.
This book will give you lots to think about. It will help you dig a little deeper to help you make a better choice about staying in or leaving a relationship." 

Larry James, CelebrateLove.com,
Author "How to Really Love the One You're With"  

 

In this book we take you through a powerful process of discovery about yourself, your partner and your relationship.  By going through this process, the decision about what's best for you actually reveals itself to you.

This process asks you to take a thorough, heartfelt examination of your relationship to help you clarify your next steps--whether those steps are to formulate ways to make the relationship better or to devise a plan to leave the relationship with grace. 

With the information you'll hear on the audio from the teleseminar, you'll gain a new understanding of some of the most important things you need to consider when deciding whether to stay in or leave a relationship. 

On this audio, we'll give you detailed answers and insights about these 10 things and because of the information we'll share, you'll be able to make a more conscious, clearer decision that is better for you.

We'll also give you some ways to think about your relationships that you may not have considered before.


When You Order the "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" Book and Audio Program, Here's What You'll Discover With the Information We Share...

  • Should you make this decision alone or is it best to involve your partner?

  • Who can (and should) you turn to for support during this time when you're making this decision?

  • How do you best decide what you really want in a relationship?

  • What is the most important question you should ask yourself about this decision when children are involved?

  • When is love no longer enough of a reason for staying in this relationship?

  • How can you make the best decision while still honoring your religious and spiritual beliefs?

  • How do you know when you're leaving this relationship too soon or staying too long?

  • When can you still have hope for rebuilding the relationship?

  • What are the most important questions to ask yourself to make sure your commitments, beliefs and decisions are reflective of who you are right now and who you want to be?

  • What are the most important questions to ask yourself to know whether your partner's or spouse's goals are compatible with yours and the most important question to ask if they aren't?

  • How can you listen to your heart instead of what other people think or what you think you "should do"?

  • What is the one thing you have instant access to right now that will tell you how you are really feeling about this situation?

  • What are the most important questions you or anyone should ask themselves to get "unstuck" in this decision-making process?

  • What can you do to be able to see the real issues and separate them out from what you may be thinking are the real issues in your relationship or marriage?

  • How can you know if both of you are willing to do the things that will make your relationship or marriage better?

  • What is the one thing that prevents almost everyone from having a truly outstanding relationship or marriage?

  • What is the most common thing we all do that builds walls between us and our partner or spouse and keeps us from having the love and connection we really want with our partner?

  • What do the "things you can't talk about with your partner or spouse" reveal about your relationship?

  • What two things must you no longer do if you want to have a happy and harmonious relationship?

  • What are the most important questions you must ask yourself about love, sex and passion?

  • What is the ONLY reason anyone flirts or has an affair when they are in a committed relationship?

  • What must you do to create a more conscious, connected and loving relationship when there has been an affair or flirting is going on?

  • What are the only times when you should absolutely leave your relationship with no second thoughts or doubts?

  • What are the best and most important questions you need to ask yourself about your financial situation and housing options if you decide to leave?

  • What is important for you to know as you plan what your next steps should be?

  • And much more.


 

When You Order "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" ...

You have the choice of getting the instantly downloadable version only...
... which includes the downloadable version of the book, MP3 version of the audios
and downloadable copies of all the bonuses described below, plus our Love and Relationships newsletter free of charge.

(With this version NOTHING gets sent to you in the mail. You download everything to your computer)   
 PDF
(Instantly downloadable book and Audio program)

Or

You can have the printed paperback version of the book and the actual CD's for the program sent to you by priority mail

(With this version, you also get instant access to the download versions of everything too, as well as our Love and Relationships newsletter sent by email free of charge.)

It's your choice and it's totally up to you. 

 

Plus, order now and we'll also include the download versions of these 3 incredible bonuses...

Bonus #1

Creating Relationship Magic Ebook

In our e-book, "Creating Relationship Magic" we've identified 52 of the biggest challenges and issues we all face in our relationships and through powerful personal stories and examples, we show you how you can create magical relationships in your life. We've sold hundreds of these e-books from our web sites at $19.77 each. The digital downloadable version is yours as a bonus for buying "Should You Stay or Should You Go?"  


Bonus #2

"6 Keys to Healing after Leaving a Painful Relationship"
by Susie and Otto Collins

This special report lays out six powerful ideas to help you move beyond where you are now and give you a fresh perspective on how to let go of your situation so you can allow the healing to begin.  You'll discover some simple, yet profound tools to move you through the pain to explore new possibilities for your relationships and your life.

We are including a copy of the digital version here as an added bonus for buying our book "Should you stay or should you go?"


Bonus #3

"10 Communication Mistakes"
by Susie and Otto Collins

We've identified ten communication mistakes that nearly everyone is making in their relationships.  Along with identifying these common mistakes, we give some proven, practical suggestions and ideas for eliminating these "mistakes" and instead, we tell you how to create great communication in any relationship.

Bonus #4

"Love and Relationships Newsletter"
by Susie and Otto Collins

This weekly newsletter, sent to you by email free of charge, is filled with practical tips and ideas about how to keep the spark alive and create the relationship you've always wanted. You can unsubscribe at any time.

 

 

How to tell if this "Should You Stay or Should You Go?"
program is for you... 

 

If you want to make the best, most informed, rational, heartfelt, conscious decision possible in deciding whether to stay in or to leave your present relationship, then "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" is for you.

If you think you are in any way wanting help, support or guidance in making this decision or want to know how to move forward from an unbiased supportive resource that's helped hundreds of people sort out what's best in their unique situation, then this program is for you.

If you are trying to make this decision as "privately" or "secretly" as possible but would still like some confidential support, this program is for you.

If you want to make sure you're not staying in this relationship or marriage too long or leaving too soon, then this program is for you because it will also help you get clear on what's best and right for you and your timing.

If you simply want to make sure you don't overlook or leave out anything in your decision making process, this program will help you do that.

If you or your partner has already left the relationship or marriage and you're trying to make sure it's really over before you "throw in the towel" and say it's over for good, then this program is for you.

If you are ready to discover the truth about what you are really feeling inside about this relationship-- if you're ready to stop denying, keeping it inside or feeling guilty about your relationship then this program will be a big help to you.

If you have even an ounce of desire to make sure you are making the best decision possible about your relationship or marriage, we sincerely believe this program can change your life.

On the other hand, if you want someone to tell you what's the "right" thing to do..

 or

...if you are unwilling to spend any time whatsoever going inside yourself to truly find out what is the right decision for you, then you should probably pass on this info and not bother getting it.

This program is for people who want to know the truth about whether they can ever have the love, passion, peace, harmony, connection (or whatever's important to them) in their current relationship or marriage -- or if it's best that they move on and find what they want in another relationship. 


How "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" Is Different From Other Relationship Resources In Helping You Make This Decision...
 

As we said earlier, there are not many resources out there for helping someone like you make the best decision possible about whether to stay or go...

Basically it boils down to two types of resources that are available to help you and "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" is different from both of them in very fundamental ways. 

These resources are: 

(1) Books you'll be able to read

or

2) Relationship therapy or coaching.

As for the books you might find available on this subject...

Most of them are good and what you'll find about them if you look (we know, we've done the research) is that the books on the subject are just that.  Books.

What's different about "Should you Stay or Should you Go?" compared to ANY book on the subject is that 'Stay or Go?' is a complete book and audio program that doesn't just offer info about how to make this decision. Stay or Go is much more than that.

In it, we're offering a complete process that hundreds of people have used to come to their own best decision. In other words, we're not just offering a book, we're taking you by the hand and walking you through a one-of-a-kind process we created that is not only based on what we wished we'd had when we made this decision earlier in our lives but also on interviews and surveys with hundreds of people struggling with relationship challenges.


So, how is "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" different than therapy or coaching?

First, while therapy can be incredibly valuable and we highly recommend it-- it can also be expensive (especially if your insurance doesn't cover it.)

Some people simply can't afford the rates that therapists charge and other people find that they need help now, not when you can get on the therapist's schedule when they have an opening.

"Should You Stay or Should You Go?" is a bargain compared to the rates therapists charge to work with you.

And with this program, there's no waiting to get help. You can start getting the help you want and need within minutes after you order the program.

Even if you're in therapy now or you've got a therapist or coach you're going to be working with soon-- many therapists and coaches recommend this program as an additional resource to use while working with them. The program is that valuable. 


What We Know About You and Your Situation

If you've read this far on, we think that you're someone who really is interested in more from your relationship than you have right now.

We also think that you're someone who's willing to look below the surface to see what's really going on and whether you can have what you want in this relationship or determine whether it's time to move on and..

We're also willing to bet that you're the kind of person who is willing to spend a little time and energy now to discover what your heart says is the right thing to do once you have all the info you need.  

Are we right?

We think so and that's why the questions, stories and insights we offer in "Should You Stay or Should You go?" are going to be so valuable to you.

With this information and questions, it's not our intention to suggest to you what is right, wrong, moral, immoral, or to pass judgment in any way about what you should or should not do in your relationships. 

Although we do give our opinions and insights about some of the issues, these decisions are yours and yours alone.  

This process will help you clarify what's going on in the relationship and will allow you to discover the answers that are inside you.
 

If you want to order this program but want to make
sure your privacy and confidentiality is protected,
here's how we handle that...

Because of the sensitive nature of this decision, we realize that you may not want anyone else to know whether you are trying to decide whether to stay or go.  

If this is the case, we want you to know that your privacy is secure with us. We believe that it's no one else's business that you're making this decision, unless you want them to know about it.

Click here to see how we will protect your privacy if you purchase the "Should You Stay or Should You Go?"  book and audio program.

 

This program is affordable for anyone committed to making the best decision
 possible about their relationship or marriage

This "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" package  that includes the book, the audio recording from the teleseminar on the 10 things to consider when deciding whether to stay or go...  and the 5 terrific bonuses is not available in stores anywhere. 

The only place you can get it is here on our web site.

You have the choice to order either the instantly downloadable version only, or you can get the instantly downloadable version along with a printed copy of the book and audio CD's mailed to you.

No matter which version you order, you can download and be reading the information and listening to the audios within minutes. 

"Should You Stay or Should You Go?" book, the audio and all 5 bonuses are available now at the introductory low price of only $34.95 for the downloadable version or $44.95 plus shipping and handling for the version sent to you by priority mail.

Look at it this way--$34.95  (or $44.95 ) is really a small price to pay for a program like this compared to the satisfaction you'll have knowing that you've done everything you could possibly do to make sure you made the best decision possible about your relationship and that you can look back on your decision with absolutely no regrets.

 

Our Famous 60 Day Guarantee

Your satisfaction and confidentiality is assured through our no risk, you-can't-lose, 100%, no-questions-asked money-back guarantee. 

If for any reason, you aren't completely satisfied with your purchase, just let us know within 60 days and we'll refund 100% of your purchase price.


We're totally convinced that you (or anyone) can have a truly outstanding relationship or marriage. The only question is-- will it be with your current partner or spouse or are you going to wan
t to move on.

What we've discovered is, the longer you hesitate or stay in limbo about this decision-- the longer it will take until you can start enjoying the kind of love and relationship we know is possible for you.

Decide now to let us help you and we'll give you the help you need to have the certainty and confidence that you've made the best decision for you.

You deserve to have the love you want in your life.  Get started now by clicking this link to order...

Our best to you, 

Susie and Otto Collins 


P.S. "Should you Stay or Should you Go" is not available in stores anywhere.  It's only available here on our web site. 

Don't put it off. Order Now For only $34.95  and you'll be able to download the book instantly or for only $10 more (plus shipping and handling), we can ship the book and cd's to you and you'll have them in just a few days.


P.P.S  If you want to order by phone-- call our office at 614-459-8121 during business hours EST and we'll be glad to help you order by phone.

 



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Susie and Otto Collins 
P.O. Box 14544
Columbus, Ohio 43214
614-459-8121

               

"Should You Stay or Should You Go"
 Helped Me Discover The Truth...

"I am so happy I purchased your book. I can not tell you how much I have learned from this. Not only about my relationship but my life. It has been a real gem to have this.

"Discovering the truth about what I am really feeling inside about this relationship has been so exciting!  No more denying, keeping it inside, nor feeling guilty about what I feel.

"This has helped me in so many ways I can not explain it all. I really thank you. To share your wisdom and insight in such a way, is truly a gift. Thank you again."

Suzy    
(Address withheld by request) 

 

"Should You Stay or Should You Go"
 Helped Me Make My Decision To Stay and Try and Work things Out...

It did actually help me make my decision to stay in my relationship and try to work things out.

As I was working through the worksheets it occurred to
me that the root of the problem was that we did not communicate expectations well and reacted in ways that we had always reacted in other relationships and just assumed the other person understood why we felt the way we did.

We have been working through the questions together one question at time. Interestingly enough, he was completely surprised that I was considering leaving the relationship as he did not perceive a problem.

These questions you offered in the program opened up a lot of dialog.

Thanks, Valerie

 

"Should You Stay or Should You Go"
 Helped Me Evaluate A So-So Relationship, Then I Found My Soulmate...

Congratulations on your great website and all the positive advice you offer people.

Your "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" program helped me evaluate a so-so, long-distance relationship, which I ended... and then I found my soulmate.

Today I am in the relationship and home and town and job that I always wanted. Keep up your work, never underestimate the need for it.

Thank you!

Janice Williams

 

"I Stayed..."

I went through the Should You Stay or Should You Go? program on a day I knew I was going to leave. I stayed. We're working through some of the problems but the reason we are is because I answered the question "why do you want to leave" in great detail.

Then I came across the question that if the issues I listed could be fixed would I stay. My answer was yes. That really made me think. I decided to share this with my husband and he said 'let's figure out a way to fix it'.

We are discussing these deep issues and so I am still here and willing to work with him to see if they can be resolved.

Thank you for the emails. I am learning a lot - about communication but also about myself and relationships. Keep them coming! B

 

             "Helped Me Be Honest..." 

"Reading 'Should I Stay or Should I Go' did exactly what its subtitle suggests---it raised compelling questions for me to consider not only about my current relationship but for my life. It helped me to be completely honest with the most important person in my life about my need to look into our future to see if we had the same goals. 

"Reading it made me sit down and write out my future goals for myself and to discuss the collective goals of my partner and me. We will now have this to refer to in the future, as we grow together. I knew approaching my boyfriend with this book would either make him consider a future with me or run the other way. 

"Whatever happened would have revealed the truth about our relationship. Approaching him with the book stirred up a lot of raw emotion and difficult discussions, but we are better for it. Thank you, Susie and Otto, for sharing the gift of your path in finding a true, loving relationship."

Sharon from West Chester, Pennsylvania




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I've been reading and listening to columns and advice from Susie & Otto for over 2 years now ...at a time when thinking clearly was not easy for me to do, because my wife and I were on the verge of divorce, this book gave me the tools I needed to dig deep down inside myself and ask myself questions I wouldn't have otherwise been able to at that time. 

"Although my wife and I decided to go our separate ways... this book is an ongoing relationship tool that will always help me evaluate myself and what I am offering and/or getting out of a relationship. Thank you Susie & Otto for helping me make this difficult decision."
 
Curt Williams from Calgary, Alberta 



 



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                        Rave Review

"Thought provoking, stimulating and provocative. This book will give you lots to think about. It will help you dig a little deeper to help you make a better choice about staying in or leaving a relationship." 

Larry James, CelebrateLove.com, Author "How to Really Love the One You're With."
 

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